Psychological transition bag and journal self-help system

ABSTRACT

A personalized psychological transition guidance system to assist a child through the difficulties of divorce or separation comprising a combination of a transitional journal and a transition bag for photos and memorabilia. The carrying bag has removable picture frames on both sides of the bag for pictures representing each side of the broken family. The bag is washable with the photo frames removed. The transitional journal has frames on both covers for pictures, one on each side. The journal has a front and a rear section of pages, one section for each side of the broken family. Each of the sections of pages includes a contact page, calendar, holiday schedule, journal pages for the parents to write on, psychologically instructive information on what needs to be communicated, and parenting ground rules.

CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS

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BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

1. Field of the Invention

The present invention relates to education and guidance related tosubject matter relating to the behavioral characteristics of anindividual or group focused on child psychology and particularly to aself-help guidance system for a child going through a psychologicaltransition in a family divorce or separation, the system comprising apersonal combination transition guide book journal and transition bagfor helping a child cope with the separation and divorce of his or herparents, and a washable transition journal carrying bag havingdetachable decorative photo sleeves on the front and back thereof fordual memorable photos for the child, a photo on one side of the bagrelated to one side of the broken family and another photo on theopposite side of the bag related to the other side of the broken family;the journal comprises a dual sided loose-leaf binder having a frontmemorable photo related to one side of the broken family followed by acontact sheet, calendar, holiday list, journal pages for the child towrite on, photo sleeves for including photographs from both sides of thefamily, a contact information sheet for both sides of the family, ayearly calendar overview, a yearly holiday schedule, information on whatneeds to be communicated and parenting ground rules.

2. Description of Related Art Including Information Disclosed Under 37CFR 1.97 and 1.98

The separation and subsequent divorce of parents is a highly stressfultime in a child's life. Many parents, although they cannot save theirmarriage, both want the transition to be as smooth as possible for thechild, so that the child remains well-adjusted throughout the divorce.In the past tools such as cards, dolls and puppets have been used tohelp the child communicate their feelings about separation and divorce.

None of the prior art systems provide for a collection of actual photosof events including the child and the members of each side of the brokenfamily symbolically compiled together in one personalized volume, whichalso includes blank journal pages, and printed pages with guidance forparents and the child in helping the child through the difficult timeand the prior art also fails to provide a carrying bag for the volumewith space for other personalized memorabilia gathered together in onelocation with the personalized photo, journal, and guidance informationbook.

Prior art U.S. Patent Application #20040133440, published Jul. 8, 2004by Carolan, is for a computer-based interactive system that providestools for divorced parents to manage their parenting responsibilitiessuch as custody arrangements, visitation, child support, and sharedmedical expenses. With the system of the invention, parents can shareinformation about schedules, documents, activities and bills via theirown secure, personalized website. The invention also facilitates theassistance to them by attorneys, counselors, and employers. Theinvention addresses the needs of all those associated with parenting anddivorce and may be available to users according to various servicelevels.

Prior art U.S. Patent Application #20040172279, published Sep. 2, 2004by Carolan, provides a method, system, and computer-readable signalcontaining instructions for facilitating complex relationship-basedinteractions among users of a community, such community corresponding toa broken family. A database is communicably coupled to a full-time,public network, wherein the database includes functionalities and isconfigured to make said functionalities accessible via the full-time,public network. Data is recorded in the database defining the communityand associating a manager with the community, wherein the manager is auser of the community. The manager can invite others to join thecommunity in order to become additional users of the community. Themanager can establish common approval items with regard to which twospecific users must agree in order to make a decision. One or more usersof the community can share information with one or more other users ofthe community.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 6,854,915, issued Feb. 15, 2005 to Ong, is for abinder for papers, photographs, or other sheet-like materials which hasa cover having one or more window openings defined therein. A flat,transparent protective sheet is located in contact with the insidesurface of the binder cover and a backing sheet overlies the protectivesheet. The backing sheet is secured to the peripheral margin of theprotective sheet, and elsewhere as required, to delineate at least one,and preferably a plurality of pockets. The pockets are formed betweenthe backing sheet and the protective sheet. An elongated slit in definedthrough the backing sheet behind each pocket created. The peripheraledges of the backing sheet are permanently secured to the inside surfaceof the binder cover. Photographs or other flat display materials may beinserted into the pockets formed between the backing sheet and theprotective sheet through the elongated slits. The pockets are delineatedso that they are aligned with the window opening in the cover. Thephotographs or other display materials may thereby be viewed through thewindow openings from the outside through the transparent protectivesheet. Selected display materials may be inserted and withdrawn from thepockets through the elongated slits in the backing cover.

Two prior art U.S. Pat. No. 5,857,797 issued Jan. 12, 1999 and U.S. Pat.No. 6,368,005 issued Apr. 9, 2002 to Streff, provide a loose leaf binderincluding an exterior picture frame. The three-ring binder includes aspine, front cover and back cover, each of which includes asubstantially solid base plate and an outer plastic shell. The spine andfront cover each includes a rectangular picture frame, the outer edgesof which are aligned with and welded to the bottom and side edges of thespine and cover. A clear plastic membrane is secured to the frame'sinterior covering the opening in the picture frame. The frame top edgesare spaced inwardly and free of the shell to form insert pockets.Display inserts are slidably mounted within the insert pockets definedby the frames. The spine insert includes an upper folded edge. AnL-shaped member extends through an opening in the folded edge, andincludes an outer pin head. Pulling upwardly on the pin head withdrawsthe insert. Mount mats of a semi-solid paper are provided in the pocketsto receive thin, flexible paper for insertion into the frame pockets.The inserted mat holds the display material with the insert pocket.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 5,411,293, issued May 2, 1995 to Monzyk, claimsa double cover ring binder including a first cover and a second coverinterconnected by a ring element. The first cover is divided into mirrorimage sections each having a pocket on at least one face. The secondcover is also divided into mirror-image sections each having a pocket onat least one face.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 4,164,085, issued Aug. 14, 1979 to Steeb,describes a keepsake album that has a frame assembly imbedded in itspadded front cover for displaying a personalizing photograph in recessedrelation to the outer-surface of the cover. A photograph-receiving traywhich forms a part of the frame assembly is disposed within acomplementally configured blind opening in the cover and is solidlyundersupported by the exposed rigid backing member of the cover alongthe bottom of the blind opening. The tray is adapted to releasablyretain a decorative frame in abutment with the outer surface of thecover for holding the desired photograph in a displayed position on thecover.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 6,899,541, issued May 31, 2005 to Kassai,discloses a life log or journal which is directed to produce a record ofthe life of a child by parent and child, explicitly divided into a fetusera, newborn era, school era, grown-up era, and mature-age era, guidinga parent to write down a record when the child is too young to write forhimself/herself, and guiding the child to write for himself/herself whenthe child grows up. In the region guiding the parent to write down arecord, an instruction is printed to inspire the parent to facilitatewriting down events of the child's development on occasion together withthe parent's feelings at that time. As a result, a life log can beproduced, leaving the affection devoted from the parent to child in avisual form so that the parent and child can share affection, joy andemotions throughout the childhood and adulthood of the child.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 4,341,521, issued Jul. 27, 1982 to Solomon,concerns a psychotherapeutic device for use by a therapist with anon-verbal or resistant child subject, wherein the child is shown a pageof a book depicting a dramatic if not traumatic scene relevant to thechild's life, such as the divorce of his parents. A series of puppetsdepicting a character of like gender to the subject child, is providedjuxtaposed to the page, and wherein each of the puppets displays adifferent emotion. The child reads or is read a story related to thescene and asked to place or affix the character puppet into the scene,which puppet exhibits the emotion that the child believes the characteris feeling.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 4,924,613, issued May 15, 1990 to Levin,provides a garment with replaceable displays. A garment having a flatpanel is provided with a clear, flexible plastic sheet window. Onemember of a hook-and-loop fastener is affixed to the perimeter of thewindow. The second member of the hook-and-loop fastener is affixed tothe flat panel of the garment in a pattern matching that of the firstmember on the window. Any sheet or card bearing indicia may be removablydisplayed on the garment by simply laying it on the garment within thespace enclosed by the second member of the fastener and covering it withthe window which removably seals it in place when the two members of thehook-and-loop fastener are pressed together. To change indicia, onepulls the window off the garment, replaces the indicia bearing sheet,and presses the window back in place. The invention may be supplied inkit form for application to a garment of the user's choice.

Prior art U.S. Pat. No. 2,986,743, issued Jun. 6, 1961 to Eilen, relatesan auxiliary pocket for garments which may hold nameplates, photographs,and the like for permitting external viewing through a transparentwindow.

What is needed is a combination of a bag carrying case for memorabiliaincluding the child with both sides of the broken family and withremovable picture frames on both sides of the bag so that it is washableand a binder journal with photos of the child with members of both sidesof the broken family, pages to write on, and instructional pages forparents and children in families experiencing divorce or separation.

BRIEF SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

An object of the present invention is to provide a total personalizedself-help transition guidance system to assist a child through thedifficult time of divorce or separation comprising a combination of abag carrying case for memorabilia including photos of the child witheach of the sides of the broken family and with removable picture frameson both sides of the bag of the child with members of both sides of thebroken family, one on each side, so that the bag is washable with thephoto frames removed; and a binder journal with a front cover and frontsection of pages with a front cover photo and a back cover photo andsections of pages including a contact page, calendar, and holidayschedule, journal pages to write on, and psychologically instructiveinformation on what needs to be communicated and parenting notebookground rules for the parents of the child.

Another object of the present invention is to provide a child with muchneeded structure during the transition of divorce or separation byproviding a journal with a calendar, and holiday schedule, andpsychologically instructive information on what needs to be communicatedand parenting notebook ground rules, thereby providing common guidelinesfor the separated parents.

In brief, the present invention comprises a child's divorce orseparation transition system. The system comprises a transition journaland a carrying bag for the journal. The transitional journal ispreferably a 3-ring journal and guidance book with picture holders onthe front and back covers in which memorable photos of each side of thebroken family may be placed. The journal further comprises a front and arear section of pages, one section for each side of the broken family.Each of the sections of pages includes a contact information sheet,calendar, holiday schedule, journal pages, psychologically instructiveinformation on what needs to be communicated and parenting notebookground rules for the parents, preferably both from the book,“Co-Parenting Survival Guide”. The transitional bag and journal providea personalized way for a child to work through the difficult time ofdivorce or separation in a family and to compile photos and othermemorabilia in the transition bag all together in one place to help thechild work through the difficulties.

The transition bag has two removable family photo frames, one on eachside of the transition bag. The child may choose memorable photos fromeach side of the broken family to place in the family photo frames. Theframes are removably attached so that the bag may be washed withoutdamaging the photographs held within the frames. The easy snap on/offphoto pockets come in a choice of colors. Decorative beads readingwords, such as “LOVE” and “FAMILY”, may hang above each photo on thephoto pockets to help comfort the child. The canvas bag (preferably redin color) is machine washable with the photo pockets removed.

The primary object of the invention is to ease the stress anduncertainty for children in families going through separation anddivorce. The bag and journal are intended to assist communication infamilies through the transition.

An advantage of the present invention is that it provides comfort for achild from a broken family.

Another advantage of the present invention is that both parents of thechild may refer to the parenting guidelines to have a common parentingplan.

One more advantage of the present invention is that the calendar allowsthe child to know what his or her schedule is going to be, therebyproviding continuity it their life.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE SEVERAL VIEWS OF THE DRAWINGS

These and other details of my invention will be described in connectionwith the accompanying drawings, which are furnished only by way ofillustration and not in limitation of the invention, and in whichdrawings:

FIG. 1 is a perspective view of a front side of the transition journalof the present invention with a photo of the child and a front side ofthe transition bag of the present invention with a memorable photo fromone side of the broken family removably attached;

FIG. 2 is a perspective view of a back side of the transition journal ofthe present invention with a photo of the child and back side of thetransition bag of the present invention with a memorable photo from theother side of the broken family removably attached;

FIG. 3 is a perspective view of a front section of pages of thetransition journal related to one side of the broken family, the sectionof pages including a contact page, calendar page, holiday schedule page,journal pages to write on, and psychologically instructive informationon what needs to be communicated and the ground rules for the parentingnotebook;

FIG. 4 is a perspective view of a back section of pages of thetransition journal related to the other side of the broken family, thesection of pages including a contact page, calendar page, holidayschedule page, journal pages to write on, and psychologicallyinstructive information on what needs to be communicated and the groundrules for the parenting notebook.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF THE INVENTION

In FIGS. 1-4, a personal combination transition guide book journal andtransition bag parent and child guidance system 20 for a child goingthrough a psychological transition in a family divorce or separation.The system 20 comprises in combination a transition bag 29 and atransition journal 21 carried in the transition bag 29.

The transition bag 29 is provided for the child to carry memorabilia andfamily photos from both sides of the family associated with two separatefamily groups created by a family break up. The transition bag 29comprises a washable transition carrying bag 29 having a firstdetachable decorative photo sleeve 25A on a front side 24A of the bag 29to receive a memorable photograph 19A associated with a first brokenfamily group, as shown in FIG. 1. The washable transition carrying bag29 further comprises a second detachable decorative photo sleeve 25B ona back side 24B of the bag 29 to receive a memorable photograph 19Bassociated with a second broken family group, as shown in FIG. 2. Thefirst and second detachable decorative photo sleeves 25A and 25B areremovably connected to the bag 29 by a detachable connector 26A and 26Bto remove the photo sleeves 25A and 25B for washing or cleaning thetransition bag 29. The decorative photo sleeves 25A and 25B on thetransition bag 29 each comprise a photo pocket 25A and 25B withperipheral snap connector elements 26A snapped onto mating snapconnector elements 26B on one side of the transition bag 29, as in FIGS.1 and 2. The photo pockets 25A and 25B may comprise any of a variety ofphoto pockets in a choice of colors.

The combination system 20 further comprises a string 12 of beads 14 withletters attached to each side of the bag 29 with comforting wordsspelled out on the beads 14, such as “family” and “love”, as shown inFIGS. 1 and 2 respectively.

The transition journal 21 is carried in the transition bag 29, asindicated by the arrows in FIGS. 1 and 2. The journal 21 comprises adual sided loose-leaf binder having a first photo sleeve 23A on a frontcover 22A of the transition journal 21 for holding a photo 19A of thechild, as shown in FIG. 1. The journal 21 also comprises a second photosleeve 23B on a back cover 22B of the transition journal 21 for holdinga photo 19B of the child, as shown in FIG. 2. The journal 21 furthercomprises a first series of pages 31A, 32A, 33A, 34A, 35A, and 36A,shown in FIG. 3, following the front cover 22A; and a second series ofpages 31B, 32B, 33B, 34B, 35B, and 36B, shown in FIG. 4, following theback cover 22B. Each of the series of pages 31A-36A and 31B-36Bcomprises a personal contact sheet 31A and 31B for contacting therespective members of each side of the broken family, a calendar 32A and32B for scheduling events with the respective members of each side ofthe broken family, a holiday list 33A and 33B associated with holidayevents associated with the respective members of each side of the brokenfamily, journal pages 34A and 34B for the parents to write relevantthoughts and feelings about the respective side of the broken family,information pages 35A and 35B on what needs to be communicated in abroken family and parenting ground rules 36A and 36B for behavior toassist a child in coping with a broken family.

The combination system 20 comprises a personalized way for the child towork through the difficult time of separation and divorce in a familyand to compile photos 19A and 19B and other memorabilia all together inone place 20 to help the child work through their emotional difficultiesand to assist communication in the broken family through the transitionof separation and divorce.

In use, the child may carry the bag 29 and journal 21 between the twoparent's homes. The bag 29 may carry not only the journal 29, but alsofavorite toys or special items to comfort the child during the timesplit between the parent's homes. The memorable pictures 19A and 19B ofboth sides of the family on the transition bag 29 allow the child tohave a continued sense of continuity during the disruption of divorce,and further comfort the child when they may miss either one of theparents. The photographs 19A and 19B are preferably photos of the childwith members of both sides of the broken family. The journal pages 35Aand 35B allow parents to write down and express their feelings. Thecontact pages 31A and 31B, calendar pages 32A and 32B, and holidayscheduling pages 33A and 33B allow the parents to outline the child'sschedule and further allow the child to have knowledge and certainty ofwhat events are going to occur, thereby providing the much neededstructure a child requires during a divorce. Both parents of the childmay refer to the information pages on what needs to be communicated 36Aand 36B in a broken family and pages on parenting ground rules 37A and37B for behavior to assist the child in coping with a broken family andto form a common parenting plan.

The carrying bag 29 is preferably red, so that it may be easily be foundby the child at all times. Alternately, the bag 29 may be the child'sfavorite color or may have the child's favorite designs (not shown)thereon to provide further comfort. The handles 13 of the bag 29 mayalso be marked with designs (not shown) or comforting words (not shown).

It is understood that the preceding description is given merely by wayof illustration and not in limitation of the invention and that variousmodifications may be made thereto without departing from the spirit ofthe invention as claimed.

1. A personal combination transition guide book journal and transitionbag self-help guidance system for a child going through a psychologicaltransition in a family divorce or separation, the system comprising incombination: a transition bag for carrying memorabilia and psychologicaltransition self-help materials associated with two separate familygroups created by a family break up, the transition bag comprising awashable transition carrying bag having a first detachable decorativephoto sleeve on a front side of the bag to receive a memorablephotograph associated with a first broken family group and a seconddetachable decorative photo sleeve on a back side of the bag to receivea memorable photograph associated with a second broken family group, thefirst and second detachable decorative photo sleeves removably connectedto the bag by a detachable connector to remove the photo sleeves forwashing or cleaning the transition bag; a transition journal carried inthe transition bag, the journal comprising a dual sided loose-leafbinder having a first photo sleeve on a front cover of the transitionjournal for holding a photo and a second photo sleeve on a back cover ofthe transition journal for holding another photo; a first series ofpages following the front cover and a second series of pages followingthe back cover, each of the series of pages comprising a personalcontact sheet for contacting the respective members of each side of thebroken family, a calendar for scheduling events with the respectivemembers of each side of the broken family, a holiday list associatedwith holiday events associated with the respective members of each sideof the broken family, journal pages for the parents to write relevantthoughts and feelings, information pages on what needs to becommunicated in a broken family and parenting ground rules for behaviorto assist a child in coping with a broken family; the combination systemcomprising a personalized way for the child to work through thedifficult time of separation and divorce in a family and to compilephotos and other memorabilia all together in one place to help the childwork through the difficulties and to assist communication in the brokenfamily through the transition of separation and divorce.
 2. Thecombination system of claim 1 further comprising a string of beads withletters attached to each side of the bag with comforting words spelledout on the beads.
 3. The combination system of claim 1 wherein thedecorative photo sleeves on the transition bag each comprise a photopocket with peripheral snap connector elements snapped onto mating snapconnector elements on one side of the transition bag.
 4. The combinationsystem of claim 3 wherein the photo pockets comprise any of a variety ofphoto pockets in a choice of colors.